Neurolove.me: What is Emotional Detachment?

psych-facts:

onlinecounsellingcollege:

1. This is an inability to connect with others in a deep and meaningful way.

2. Thus, although the person may be physically present, they are not emotionally present in the relationship.

3. In fact, sometimes the person will dissociate, or experience emotional numbing.

4. Emotional detachment makes it hard for the individual to empathize with others, to share their own feelings (which they may be unaware of), or to appear emotionally engaged in a conversation or relationship.

5. Often the person will intellectually analyze situations, but they will not be able to identify, understand or share any feelings.

6. In most cases, emotional detachment is related to a psychological trauma in the person’s past – something that occurred in a relationship with someone important to them.  As a result of this trauma, the person (usually unconsciously) has chose to protect themselves from future pain by refusing to allow anything similar to happen again. Hence, they can’t relate on an emotional level.

You know how they say actions speak louder than words?

He doesn’t have to say those 3 words in order for me to get it.

His actions are speaking volumes.

I just don’t comprehend how not saying “I love you” to me is going to make those feelings any less real.

Whatever floats your boat babe.

I still got you where I want you.

*Kanye shrug

"I said never apologize for how you feel. No one can control how they feel. The sun doesn’t apologize for being the sun. The rain doesn’t say sorry for falling. Feelings just are."


Iain S. Thomas, Intentional Dissonance (via cityyandcolour)

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"I saw that you were perfect and so I loved you. Then I saw that you were not perfect and I loved you even more."


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